This question has been boggling my mind from so many days. Many times i got a situation where i wanted to say NO,but i couldn't say it. Because that NO might hurt someone's feelings whom i care about or it might make the other people misunderstand me or something..... which has some bad effect on me.
I recently came to know that saying NO is also a big thing.
There were situations where i was not happy even if i say "NO" or "YES".
How to handle situations like that?
If i say "Yes" to some things i am sacrificing some of my basic principles.
If i say "No" i am hurting few people whom i care about.
So recently there was a clash between "Principles" Vs "Family" .
Not only family my principles are clashing with lots of other things.
Now should i sacrifice my principles??
NO.......i don't think so i can do that because ,I am what i am now because of those principles only.So there is no point in sacrificing them. If i am sacrificing them i am sacrificing myself.
Ok. Now should i stick to my principles?That means i m hurting few people whom i care about and who do care about me.
So what should i do now..............................................?
When i was thinking i got an answer in the form of a question "Why don't you let the people understand your principles?,If they understand them there will not be a clash."
hahahaha. Now there lies the big problem and it raises another question.
"How to communicate effectively and let the people know what you are thinking and don't give scope for mis-understanding?".
So now i am stuck here.How should i make people understand what i am thinking. No two people can think the same. But it is a great art to effectively communicate what do u mean when you say something.
I don't think so i am good at it at this point of time.
So what can i do now?? I am working on it and praying GOD to give me the ability and courage to comminicate effectively and make people understand what i am thinking.
GOD, bless me with the courage to communicate effectively.
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