I believe "Winners make it happen. Losers let it happen".
Losers :
- Don't have dreams or afraid of dreaming big
- Let Life just pass by them and they don't care to do anything about it.
- play the game "guilt-trip" well.
- are pessimists
- can be as sarcastic as hell, because all they can do is be sarcastic.
- have lot of theories (some dumb enough) to talk about, but nothing in practice
- they have lot of opinions on "how others should live their life" while they don't even check what a mess they are living in.
and the best part of them is, they can give "Criticism" that literally doesn't make any sense or is not at all constructive.
I should have found this great article "How to handle Criticism" earlier so that I wouldn't have wasted time thinking about these LOSERS talk.