Under devloped India

We have seen..How India is fastly..growing..

but there are still lots of issues that are hindering India to be a developed country.

If these issues can sorted out from the root-level. We can see a developed India soon....

Be the change you want to see - Mahatma Gandhi

I would add to that saying "Bring the change you want to see".......

World's Fastest Growing Free Market Democracy - INDIA

Lets have a look at how fast India is growing...

India Shining....

India is shining..

But still lot of things have to be improved and changed.. It is we who have to change things and become a change for seeing a developed INDIA.........

Lets be the change.........

Pursuit of Happiness

I think everyone in life at a time or the other will be in this stage. I think lot of people or still in this stage...striving to be happy....Want to be happy....doing lot of things to be happy..thinking that they will be happy..... will those things make us happy?? Who knows.......

But it is the Hope that we will be happy,lets us do many things...and...we strive for that Happiness....

Even I am in this stage right now......

I wanted to watch the movie "Pursuit of Happiness" when some friend said "It is good".
Even by just hearing that name.....I was willing and was eager to watch that movie....but somehow things didn't workout....and I couldn't watch that movie from the past 6 months...

But today I am very happy that I could watch it......I am Happy that I watched a good movie..

I swear that it's a good movie ......atleast for the people who are busy in their life and striving to be Happy.....it makes lot of sense to them.

Be Happy watching that movie.....and I think you will attribute lot of things happening in that movie to yourself in someway or the other.

Watch it here now.... Pursuit of Happiness
Note : This movie is taken inspired by a true story......and it's really good.

Starcast : Will Smith,Jaden Smith(Will Smith's son)......

Enjoy the movie

Not too late to realize........

I am really happy today that what ever I am writing in this blog is making sense to some people. I could make some people think.

Ok let me say you what am I talking about........

One day while I was online. I got a message saying "Thank YOU"

I thought who was it saying me Thank you........

It was my friend.Being surprised I asked him "why were you saying Thank you to me?"

He said "I read your posts and I was really impressed , the way you wrote your posts..."

He then asked me "Hey I want to communicate well,be fearless in talking....."

The problem he said to me is that, now he is doing job in a Software company where that company expects him to give presentations. He is not doing well and his Project manager is looking very weirdly at him for which my friend felt very bad.

He said to me "I really want to improve my communication....please help...me"

I said "What is your problem?"

He said " I know the content,but when i go on the stage for giving a presentation I get tensed thinking, am I giving it nicely or what other people will think if I am doing it badly...."

Then I said "First don't think about others......Think about yourself......It will take time for you to give it nicely.....But don't stop yourself thinking about criticism and all that.........Just concentrate on the content and keep talking ......you will do good.The people who want to criticize you when you are doing bad....will praise you when you are doing....good".I don't know whether I said the correct thing or not...but thinking like that helped me alot... and I used to give good presentations....and I even got National Level First prize in a Technical paper contest......

To my knowledge there are two problems in not giving a good presentation

1.If you are not aware of what you are talking
Remedy : Be thorough with your content,the content you want to talk on.

2. Fear of the output...I mean fear of critics and fear of "how well I am going to present"
(Most people will have the second problem....
Remedy : Just forget about everyone else.... Think in this way "This is my time,I gonna do well...."

I donno whether these are the correct assumptions or problems faced in a presentation.But to my knowledge I used to face those problems.

Even I had those problems.....and I should admit I still have them.

I think I can talk for hours on general things .But when it comes to any technical presentation. I fumble slightly...

So I think I have the first problem...."I need to be thorough with the content"

I don't think so, I will have the second problem because I like critics and I also believe in "A person is measured by the number of critics he has,the more critics for him,the better he is doing ". Because critics concentrate only things worth concentrating,otherwise they damn care about it.....So if someone is criticizing that means you are of some worth.

Anyway.....this is all my perception.....I don't know to what extent I am right.... :-)

Now let me say something ......We (me and my friend)were together almost 4 years in Engineering. I was almost his benchmate and roommate for an year. He was very close to me even at that time....

I used to talk to him almost everyday....I even used to say "Do like this...Do like that....". You know what was his response,he used to say "Arey.....please don't give lectures...let me enjoy.....". I thought ok.....it's ok it's upto you.....

He is very good the problem is he was not serious for the things he had to be serious..... He used to take everything jovially........His common word is "Light theesko.......mama....." which means "Take it lite take it easy......".

But now he was saying " I really wasted my engineering time,I should have utilized it....".
I think lot of people get those feeling...for that matter why lot of people...even I get the feeling that I have not utilized my Engineering time properly...

It is always there......Its never too late to realize.....

Now I said to him "Forget about the past....what has happened.Take them as lessons and try to work on the things which are bothering you......work on them until they are solved.
Work smartly......"

He was very happy for talking to me.......I was much more happier that at least he has realized now.

Then I got a feeling that "If we can realize..early it's good and today is not too late to realize.....

Be Logical, Don't be Emotional

Today I came to know that we need to be Logical in doing things rather than being emotional...

Yeah lots of times I think very emotionally.......

But I even knew that we should think practically.....I mean how the things go in practical.

Here I am using the word logical for practical...

I don't know how we can make the theory into practical....

Lot of things are good to think about,but when it comes into practical they don't seem to be achievable.

Ok.....let me not confuse more...Let me give an example of what I am talking

I want to establish a school to provide good education which will atleast contribute a bit for the major problem in India (Illeteracy) and if that problem is addressed , lot of other problems which are the effect of this will also be addressed(to an extent...not wholly).(The reason for establishing school...and all those are in my previous posts)

So when I got that idea to establish the school. I started putting on the paper.I even brought a book which says "how to establish a school and all the information required to establish a school"
But then I got a question in my mind "What should be the name of the school?"

I was in a debate ,but still I didn't come to a conclusion but was thinking that Vivekananda motivated me a lot and he is also an ideal person for the youth.So lets keep the school name with his name.So I thought may be it will be "Vivekananda Institute of Educational Excellency".

I thought we shouldn't just give the bookish knowledge. It should give them the overall development We should teach them "How to live?"..."How to face things?" Lots of practical things to be addressed... It is not just studying .Its learning,playing . Having fun while playing and the children should enjoy learning.

Ok after the name issue is over. Now comes the plan ,untill what class and all then I thought ok let us keep untill 5th class first.

But the key features of the college should be :

A good library
A good play ground
A good computer lab
........ lot more to be added...

Then there comes the issue MONEY. Do I have the money right now?????? NO.....

But should I stop or drop my Idea.????........NO

I thought money shouldn't be a big problem.. Because if we are doing something good lot of peopl will help and we can proceed.....

I also know that some good things take time .We need to be patient.Just wait for the time(our time)

Lot of people said to me "First settle in your life and then think of all this ".

Yeah I knew that i should settle in my life and then only I can do all these things.... But if I am not working on this and thinking of it.. by the time I settle there will be lot other priorities...and I am very much afraid that can I keep up my desire to establish..

Then I will start thinking emotionally and say "If I am committed to establish I will do it come what may". But being practial/logical lots of things will add up(Suppose if I am doing a job,there will be lots of responsiblities for that job I need to do.....Then what about my dream or desire.......????????

God teach me the art of Balancing the life......

Teach me "How to go on with life,fullfilling all our dreams and desires"

But I also know "Life will not be the way ,you want it to be "

But there are people who will say "You are the Creator of your own Destiny"

But all i want to say is...I want to make my dream a reality.

God Please help me in doing that.........

Never Assume

Ahhhhh !! I am really hating myself because of the stupid habit I have of assuming,but untill now they didn't get me any bad results,but they had an impact on me.

But still more worse thing is that When people start assuming about me... I mean I will be thinking something and people are trying to interpret it in their own way...

That is a big problem. Lot of us take the things in our own way. In this context even I am getting in my mind about the system in INDIA.

There are lots of rules and regulations in INDIA. Actually the rules behind the system are pretty good.But people interpret them to their own and make advantage of it....

Any situation we take there are lots of problems with assuming. I don't say assuming is bad. If I say that I am a fool because lots of advances in technlogy and this world have taken with assumptions only,but they are some meaningful assumptions

So What I want to say is when we assume,we should have some meaningful assumptions,some supporting and meaningful factors for those assumptions....

The reason I am writing all this is ,lot of people are mis-interpreting me with their wrong assumptions and even I do that stupid thing and I am no exception for that....Even I think i hurt feelings of few people with those wrong assumptions....

So those stupid assumptions cost us alot......which we may not be able to repay but just repent over it.

So I want to make sure that I don't assume or take things for granted. If at all there is a situation we need to assume,may be I will do an educated guess or a meaningful assumption

Note : It seems When we ASSUME we make A** out of U n ME :-)

Add value to the talks,shouldn't just talk

Ahhhh !! I feel much relaxed......now. I think GOD is really great,he is listening to what ever I am speaking. Kudos...my GOD

Just few hours back I was feeling very much bored.....but now I am very much relaxed and feel very excited.

So I came to know the only CONSTANT thing in this world is CHANGE.

My mindset has changed so quickly and now I get the feeling "I can achieve what ever I want to".

May be the reason for the change is I worked on something worth working Which I will talk about in the coming few days.....

But few things really make me feel bad....

I don't know why lot of people just talk for the sake of talking and don't know what they are talking,Why they are talking,How they are talking and for what they are talking?


For example.....If people keep on talking , there will be monotany and its hard to pay interest.
So we will surely not pay attention to them.... So the art is to keep people interesting and never bore them . I don't know whether I am keeping people interested are not..... ;-)
When will I know that when I get the feedback or comments... Hope I will get them


If people are providing lots of of data,I think it is just data and I feel in a world of data it is very important to know which data is important to us or relavent to us.
So we need to provide Some information of value not mere just data.

I came across lots of situations where people can and will talk for hours,but I get a doubt whether they know what they are talking? Does they make any sense.So it's important to know what we are talking and is it of any value? Now While I am writing this post I questioned myself what am I writing and for what am I writing?

hahahaha .Good that I got answers to those questions ,otherwise there would be no meaning to this whole diary.

The answers I got are

• I am writing about - "Why people talk for just the sake of talking and have no sense in their talks?
• and I am talking about it because I am sick of hearing to people like them and may be I will take care from such people.

One more interesting thing and funny thing is....some people talk for lot of time and don't make any sense..When I questioned myself I got an answer that "May be they don't what they are talking about?" This is just my answer and may be I got that answer because sometimes even I do that...I talk something when I don't know what to talk and then think after some time "What am I talking".But now I am sure and confident about what I am talking or writing in this post. :-)

So its good to know about what we are talking

Ohhhhh very long post and even I din't think I will be talking this much.....Don't know whether I added value to these talks or made no sense.....Hope I added value because I know what I was talking and for what I am talking and How I talked.... :0)

Hope the God reminds me everday of what I am talking.....God Please take care of me...

Why do i get this feeling?

ohhhhh !!! I am really feeling bored today.

I don't know why I am getting this feeling,but I feel like I am not living my life.

Everyday I am thinking of lots of things..to do.

How to utilize my time efficiently?

How to be Organized/Scheduled.....lots of things come into my mind.

I think I am utilizing my time,,,but I am not enjoying the time I am utilizing.

I am really getting bored so easily.....

I sit on my website to work on the website...and after desining my layout...I feel like sleeping,but again I will think no I should complete it.....again I will change my layout. again and again.....

I don't know what is happening....to me but something is happening....I am not able to Concentrate...

Sometimes I am really getting frustrated,have the feeling I am not doing well.

May be it's time for me to take a break from the routine life.....(studying,job,...work........)

Yeah I think it's the reason......it has been long back I watched a movie on my Lappy......

It's time to have fun...and entertainment........